
Picture a deal you were sure about. The buyer loved it. Then nothing moved for weeks. Here is what often went wrong. You knew they wanted to buy, but you never learned how they buy. A yes is rarely one moment. It is a chain of steps and sign-offs. When you can map the decision process, you stop hoping and start knowing.
Most people skip the boring question. They get excited that the buyer likes the product, so they forget to ask how a yes actually happens. Who reviews it? Who has to approve the spend? What has to be true before a contract gets signed? Without those answers, you are guessing. You promise a close date you cannot back up. Then a step you never saw coming stalls the whole deal.
Good sellers stay curious about the path, not just the product. They can name every step between today and a signed deal. They know who owns each step and roughly when it happens. They build that map with the buyer, out loud, so it is shared. When you can lay out the steps, the owners and the timeline to a decision, you are doing this well.
Ask them to take you through it. Cover every step, who is involved, and how long each one tends to take. Do this with them, not in your head.
Walk me through what happens after today. Who reviews it, who signs off, and how long does each part usually take at meritt?
Turn what they said into a clear list of steps with owners and rough dates. Then read it back so you both agree it is right.
So it's a team review next week, then legal, then your VP signs. Have I got that right?
A new face can add a step you never knew about. So each time someone new shows up, ask how they fit and what they need before the deal can move.
Now that Priya's involved, does anything change in how this gets approved?
Sounds like you're keen, so I'll send the contract over and we can wrap this up by the end of the month. You named a date with no idea what stands between you and it. Two weeks later, a procurement step you missed pushes everything back.
Before we talk dates, help me understand the path. After your review, who has to approve the spend, and does it go through legal first? The buyer walks you through three steps you did not know about. Now your close date is real, not a wish.
Same deal. Same buyer. One version is a hope. The other is a plan you can actually stand behind.
You've got this when you can lay out the steps, the owners and the timeline to a decision, without pausing to guess. Pick any active deal and say it out loud. Can you name each step and who owns it? Can you give a rough date for each one? If yes, you are mapping the decision process well. If you stall, you have found exactly what to ask next.
Mapping the decision process means listing every step a buyer must take to reach a yes, from the first review to the final sign-off. You note who owns each step and roughly when it happens. In meritt's MEDDPICC approach, this is the Decision Process. It turns a vague close date into a real plan you can stand behind and track.
It is easy to miss because buyer excitement feels like progress. When someone loves your product, you assume the rest is simple, so you skip the path entirely. But liking something and being able to buy it are different things. The steps, approvals and sign-offs often live with people you have not met yet, and they quietly decide your real timeline.
Ask the buyer to walk you through what happens after today. Good questions are: Who reviews this next? Who has to approve the spend? Does it go through legal or procurement? And how long does each step usually take? Then write their answers down and read them back so you both agree. Shared maps are far more reliable than ones you build alone in your head.
Update it any time a new person joins the deal or a step changes. A new stakeholder can add an approval you never knew about, which moves your whole timeline. Re-checking is low effort and saves you from nasty surprises late on. A quick now that they're involved, does anything change keeps your map honest and your close date believable.
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