Skills · 20 June 2026 · 1 min read

How to Trade Concessions Instead of Giving Them Away.

A buyer asks for a discount, better payment terms, or added scope during late-stage negotiation.
Will Koning
Will Koning
Founder, meritt
meritt illustration: closing & advancing the deal

A buyer asks for a discount, better payment terms, or added scope during late-stage negotiation.

Every concession you give without getting something back teaches the buyer that asking works. It also stacks - three small giveaways can quietly erode a deal's margin without anyone noticing. Treating every concession as a trade keeps the deal balanced and signals that your pricing is real, not padded for negotiation.

Where it goes wrong

Reps who give freely under pressure end up with deals that are smaller, slower to close, and harder to expand. Procurement learns to wait them out.

What you'll be able to do

You can respond to any concession request with a conditional offer, keep a running record of what has moved and why, and avoid giving anything away that is not tied to a return.

How to do it

Use conditional language every time

Use conditional language every time: 'If we can move on payment terms, can you commit to a two-year term?' Never give without a 'if ... then' frame.

Keep a simple concession ledger in your deal notes

Keep a simple concession ledger in your deal notes - what they asked for, what it costs you, what you asked for in return, and whether it was accepted. Review it before every negotiation call.

Rank your negotiables before the call

Rank your negotiables before the call: low-cost-to-you items first (implementation phasing, QBR cadence, reference call), meaningful items second (payment terms, support tier), price last and only tied to volume or term.

When you do move on price, make it visibly

When you do move on price, make it visibly conditional and name what you are getting: 'We can do that rate if you move to annual prepay and sign by end of month.'

See the difference

Weak

Buyer: 'Can you waive the implementation fee?' Rep: 'Sure, I think I can make that work.'

Strong

Buyer: 'Can you waive the implementation fee?' Rep: 'That fee covers the onboarding resource we dedicate to you for 60 days. I can look at reducing it - but I would need something in return. If you can commit to a two-year term, I can bring that down significantly. Does that work?'

You can respond to any concession request with a conditional offer, keep a running record of what has moved and why, and avoid giving anything away that is not

How you'll know it's working

You have got it when you cannot remember the last time you gave a concession without getting something back.

Questions people ask

How do you trade concessions instead of giving them away?

Every concession you give without getting something back teaches the buyer that asking works. It also stacks - three small giveaways can quietly erode a deal's margin without anyone noticing. You can respond to any concession request with a conditional offer, keep a running record of what has moved and why, and avoid giving anything away that is not tied to a return.

What is the most common mistake to avoid?

Reps who give freely under pressure end up with deals that are smaller, slower to close, and harder to expand. Procurement learns to wait them out.

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